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Seoul-bound in 5 days~~

...to say

HAPPY BIRTHDAY CHRISTINE
kwong521!!!
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 I'M SO EXCITED FOR CHUN'S DRAMA!!! I HOPE HE DOES SO FUCKING WELL!!!

Travel tips from one of my favorite travel goddess, Bianca Gonzales: 

1. Bring a Lonely Planet and a map!
I really swear by Lonely Planet! Very accurate, great suggestions, very precise, and I highly recommend their three-day itineraries—especially for short trips. I also recommend their walking or bike tours! (Lonely Planet's my fave too!:D)

2. Best to ask a local!
Try to ask friends who have been there, or friends who are locals, which is even better! It's great to be a tourist but also great to check out how the locals spend their time.

3. Best to have a large, light tote bag!
I swear by Longchamp as the best travel handbag! It's classic and stylish, but super functional. It's designer but not the type you'll feel bad about placing on the floor or a dirty table, its so easy to clean, too. Plus you can drop so many things inside that you might need for the day! It can fit your phone, wallet, shades, map, camera, alcohol, plus there's space for an umbrella or cardigan or even little items you shopped for! Best to have a zipper in your tote so your things are secure.

4. Wear comfortable shoes!
Especially in places that you will explore and walk around in, best to wear comfy flats, espadrilles, or sneakers! You can pack your dressier heels for the evening but for the day, wear flats!

5. Bring a jacket or blazer with pockets as your main travel gear!
I always travel—as in airport to airport—with a jacket with pockets because it's best to have your passport, pen, ID, and wallet in an easy-to-access place! Plus, it keeps you warm in the cold airports and airplanes!

6. Learn local phrases!
English is pretty much spoken everywhere but it's best to learn a few key phrases for wherever city you are going! Locals always appreciate when the tourists take that extra step to be warm and friendly.

7. Pack using packing cubes!
They're the best to compartmentalize your luggage! Super! Also if you plan taking day trips, you should pack a backpack in your luggage so that when you do go on that trip, you can leave your luggage in your hotel room or at the Concierge and just take the backpack for the day with you!

8. Bring photocopies of documents!
Photocopy your passport, visa, and ID's and leave them in your luggage so that in case of any loss, you have copies of your important documents.

9. Separate cash!
I also recommend not putting all your cash in one place, like your wallet. Separate some to be put in your luggage, or your hand carry, so that in case of any loss, you still have another stash.

10. Learn to take public transport!
Taking the cab is most convenient, but if you can, also learn how to ride the train, the boat, the bus, or whatever other mode of transportation the city has! It's one of the best ways to absorb the culture.

11. Try planning your next day's itinerary the night before!
Again, not to tie down yourself to certain activities, but more as a guide so you cover as much as you can, when you can. It's also good to leave space for something you might want do spur of the moment, or for even just sitting in a cafe watching the world go by.

12. Take notes and take photos!
As much as you can so you don't forget the little details about every amazing place you saw, thing you did, or food you ate!

13. Always pack an extension cord an universal adaptor!
So that wherever you are, even if there is only one outlet, you can still plug everything you need to plug like chargers! Always charge batteries at night so that they next day, you're good to go!

14. Explore on foot! 
Be adventurous and go on foot and explore if you have free time. Meet people and look around if you have the luxury of time!

15. Collect something in every city you go to!
Whether it's a sticker or coasters or figurine or a kind of photo, do it! I collect tumbling shots. :p

 Article with picture here..

(something to help you get out of the dumps)

♥ Immerse yourself in something positive. Volunteer at a no kill animal shelter. Read to the elderly. Start an art project. Do something to create a positive influence for yourself. Negative thoughts and places are dangerous when you're down.

♥ Stop letting yourself only see the negatives when you look in the mirror. I used to always think "I'd be acceptable looking if I lost 10 pounds and my skin was better." and that's all I saw. I saw the negatives first and I almost never saw the positives. What do you like about yourself? What good things to others see in you? Why are you unique? How are you beautiful?

♥ Avoid negative people for a while. It's best to cut those people out all together, but that's not always possible. Just take a break. You're weak right now and you need to avoid people who will further bring you down.

♥ Don't be afraid to take it easy and don't beat yourself up for it. Just like if you had a cold, you'd try to make yourself feel better with medicine, rest, and good eating habits. You're under the weather right now, just not physically. Do things you like, surround yourself with people you love, and don't forget to fill your life with positive energy 24/7.

♥ Try something new. Change up your hair or your clothes. Stop listening to music that reinforces how you're currently feeling. Stop watching sad movies.

♥ Buy a blank notebook. Draw a huge heart on the cover. Don't write anything negative in here. If you need another outlet, make a separate notebook. This one is all about love, personal growth, and getting back up. Fill it with beautiful images, reaffirming thoughts, and quotes. Write in it every day, and each day write one thing you're grateful for in your life.

♥ Get on a healthier path. Stop eating junk food. Quit smoking. Cut back on sugar. Start exercising. Get plenty of sleep. Buy some daily vitamins and drink a lot of tea each day. Replace unhealthy foods with plenty of fruits and vegetables and drinks TONS of water.

♥ Pick up a new skill and refine it.

♥ Go to the bookstore and navigate yourself to the self help section. Choose a book that appeals to you the most and best applies. Read it and then go back for another.

♥ Dedicate at least two hours of your day to yourself. This is your writing, thinking, and growing time. You're on a mission, you need time to complete it.

♥ Find someone you can talk to. Have deep conversations with them.

♥ Do not let yourself sink into your old habits even when you start to feel better. If you fall of the wagon, get right back on it.

♥ Make a list of your negative traits that you feel can be improved. Work on them one by one.

♥ Don't be that person who's always complaining or upset. When you talk to people, be positive. Find the good in every situation and point it out.

♥ Never be embarrassed or afraid to admit that you're not the strongest right now. Be honest. Everyone's been there. Don't hide behind a mask.

♥ Don't jump into new relationships or cling on to people for stability. Be your own rock.

♥ Be open. Try new things. Go out and do something. Meet new people. Explore opportunities.

(sorry, i'm in a spamming spree) xD

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 a possible 4th jib on the horizon for SUJU?? me likey~!

also, why is Chun!face missing in HJ & JJ's Vancouver vacay?D:

credits: HDBSK

seriously, everything that's happening to the DongBang boys lately are a little heartbreaking. i mean, we all know that break-up is inevitable but this is just fucked-up! and i'm not saying that this is leading to one but--- i don't really know what to think anymore.. maybe just listen to Yoochun and ALWAYS KEEP THE FAITH, ne? yes, right or wrong, i'm on Chun!face's side.. that's for sure!

( can't we go back to these days? )

*i may add something else later